Happy New Year! The last few years I’ve written well-meaning posts along the lines of New Year’s resolutions, mostly about being better and kinder to yourself, which will result in your being better and kinder to others.
For 2016, my motto which I also recommend to you is going to be Shut Up and Dance. This of course is the title of Walk the Moon’s extreeeeemely addictive pop song. The official music video on YouTube has something like ten trillion gazillion views.
Direct link if the embed does not show up: http://youtu.be/6JCLY0Rlx6Q
This video is so retro. Besides a cute lead singer, it was shot with a total nod to the 1980s — the hair, the clothes, the makeup, and especially the video style of clunky, computer-generated special effects. Remember those early CG efforts? Funny to watch now.
So what does this have to do with a new year? I don’t mean that you or anyone should literally shut up and not say anything, but I will recommend to stop complaining. I do it, you do it, we all do it. What really bugs me is that I find we tend to do more of it as we get older, and it’s a major downer. A turn-off. A party pooper. A wet blanket.
I hang around very few older people, meaning my age (57) and older, because they do so much **** constant complaining. Bitch, bitch, bitch. It’s wearing and draining and a huge negative weight that I neither want nor need. Sadly, the stereotype of the crabby old man/woman can be true. Don’t be that stereotype; be upbeat. And if you can’t be upbeat, be quiet.
Weeellllll…. good in theory, right? I know it’s impossible. We don’t want to be insufferable Pollyannas either. And sometimes we do want or need to vent. But maybe tone it down? One thing I hope to do is stop harping on negative personal things. For example, I have a minor foot issue that’s sometimes painful. My family and close friends know about it, so there is absolutely no need for me to keep bringing it up. They know. It hasn’t changed. So drop it.
Now the more fun part of my recommendation — dance. Either literally dance, or at least get moving. The sedentary lifestyle — says me, the mouse potato — is a killer and we need to move our bodies. Dancing is more entertaining than walking on a treadmill, which I find boring as hell. If an exercise is boring, you won’t stick to it, or you’ll hate it every second.
Maybe you have an issue with your knees or whatever and cannot actually dance. You can still move to music. A very fun video game is Disney Fantasia: Music Evolved, in which you “conduct” music to various trippy special effects. It can be a ton of arm exercise, and face it, haven’t we all wanted to conduct an orchestra like Mickey Mouse in the movie Fantasia? I like rocking out to Queen’s Bohemian Rhapsody or Bruno Mars’s Locked Out of Heaven. I bought the game when it was new, a little over a year ago, and the price has come down a lot since.
Here’s a video of how the game works, with the song Let It Go by Demi Lovato from the movie Frozen:
Direct link: http://youtu.be/D7Xr_4ePyD8
Don’t know about you, but I would 1000 times rather do this than lift free weights. You can play in “Party Mode” like I do (going directly to the songs) or go through the child-appropriate Story Mode, which unlocks more content. Btw, Let It Go is another good resolution — let go of stuff that holds you down or holds you back or otherwise clutters up your mind. But maybe I’ll hold that thought ’til next New Year’s Day!